Lesson 16: Self Control And Relapse Prevention - Slide 33





Resistance To Change
- This resistance to change has nothing to do with gender
- Men and women are equally likely to protest and say, “Why should I have to change? It’s all their fault”
- When we fight:
- We think about the person we’re at odds with, in a negative, illogical, and self-defeating way
- We make demands that drive them farther away