Lesson 23: Common Life Problems After Quitting or Rehab: Slide 17





All Marriages Have Some Degree Of Discord
- Problems in marriage or love relationships can be a cue for renewing drug or alcohol abuse, because using can:
- Provide a temporary false sense of increased self esteem when things are going wrong
- Be a way of exerting control in the relationship by defying the partner and inducing a false sense of invulnerability in the person using
- Be a way to reduce anger or smooth over other negative feelings towards the partner
- Be an escape from unhappiness particularly if the person using sees that there is no way to solve the problem or to leave the relationship
Notes:
Pg. 192-197, “Cognitive Therapy of Substance Abuse,” Aaron T. Beck, Fred D. Wright, Corey F. Newman, Bruce S. Liese, The Guilford Press, New York, 1993